Just Divorced? 5 Things You’ll Want to Do Immediately
Embed from Getty Images The initial period following a divorce may the toughest time anyone can face. Here are 9 areas you can address to make it easier. — Divorce is painful and undesirable. But,...
View Article50 Reasons You Should Act More Like a Happily Divorced Guy
Steve Horsmon explains why your unhappy wife secretly notices happily divorced guys ___ I’m a happily divorced man. The divorce came first – then the happy. Pain first – then growth. It just doesn’t...
View ArticleThe 9 Most Important Things to Remember After Your Divorce
Embed from Getty Images Truths to hold onto as you sit alone and contemplate your life as a divorced man. — Your bed is empty. Your house, silent. Your life seems to have come to a standstill. There...
View ArticleDivorced Man Gives Great Advice In Letter About The Importance Of Loving A...
A humbled man gives epic advice to other men, on how to really love a wife. There’s a lot of nastiness that can come out of the dissolution of a marriage — the back-and-forth arguing has even led...
View ArticleAre You a Man Who Has Been Divorced? We Want to Hear From You!
We’re looking for short quotes with man-to-man advice. We’re looking for quotes from real-life guys who have been divorced or separated. We can quote you anonymously, or use your name, and include a...
View Article3 Life Saving Steps to Take Back Your Divorce
Divorcing? America’s shaming meta narrative about divorce can destroy your life. — Disclaimer: This article is not aimed at people who have been the victimized by emotional or physical abuse in their...
View ArticleWhat’s Fair Got To Do With Divorce?
As desirable as fairness seems, it is one of the most subjective concepts there is. — Last week, along with all other parents of school-aged kids across the U.S., I attended back-to-school night. What...
View Article3 Mistakes You Can Avoid When Divorcing
View image | gettyimages.com Your spouse knows just how to push your buttons. Here’s what to do. ____ Going through a divorce is like going to an amusement park, just not as fun. Or, if you’re like...
View Article5 Myths About Divorce Mediation
Did you know the average divorce* now costs $95,000? It doesn’t have to be that way! — Divorce does not have to be a battle. The only reason that tends to be the case is that most people only know of...
View Article10 Songs to Blast When Going Through Divorce
Which healing songs will you play on repeat this weekend? — Some days the very best therapy to be found is just rolling down the windows and letting the wind and music flow through you on a long...
View ArticleDivorce Block
Once the divorce is final things should immediately feel better, right? — You haven’t heard from me in a while. My colleagues haven’t heard from me in a while. My closest friends haven’t heard from me...
View ArticlePlease Stop Text Fighting Your Ex
Text that snarky retort to yourself so you can laugh later. Then put your grown up pants back on. — You know the old story where the lion is walking merrily along minding his own beeswax, when...
View ArticleThe No-Fail Method to Answer: ‘Should I Get a Divorce?’
No one can decide for you, but here is a way to make the decision easier for yourself. — Hands down the most common question I hear working in the divorce arena is this: “How do I know whether or not...
View ArticleHow to Rebuild Self-Esteem After Divorcing a Manipulator
6 ways to break the cycle of dysfunctional attraction and recognize your true value. — If you’ve been through a long-term relationship or marriage with an emotional manipulator, chances are you now...
View ArticleHow to Explain to Your Kids When You Disagree With Your Ex
Here’s the magic word to teach your kids the world won’t end anytime soon… — Most divorced parents never want to admit to our kids, let alone to ourselves, that we not only do we no longer love their...
View ArticleDear John, Women Can Handle it When Men Don’t Dig Us
I appreciate the effort to save our feelings, but we will be OK. Really. — Questions for the men: Have you ever found yourself sincerely trying to respect a woman’s feelings by breaking things off...
View ArticleYou’re Not the Crazy One, So Stop Believing It
Divorce can leave you feeling mentally unstable. Are you sure it isn’t just you? — At the end of a long-term relationship with an emotional manipulator, your break up or divorce is unlikely to go...
View ArticleDon’t Use “Force”
Bill Eddy explains that while many children of divorce would rather stay where they are, it doesn’t mean they don’t want to see their Mom or Dad. — “I won’t force the children to go with the other...
View ArticleHow to Have the Most Difficult Conversation of Your Life
8 tips for ending your marriage with respect, honor & compassion. — I recently wrote about the reasons men have difficulty asking their wives for a divorce, and why staying in a marriage that has...
View ArticleA Username is Worth a Thousand Words
Make the most of online communities during your divorce, even while carefully managing your social media presence. — Most anyone going through a divorce these days is well aware that — at least until...
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