Just Divorced? 5 Things You’ll Want to Do Immediately
Embed from Getty Images The initial period following a divorce may the toughest time anyone can face. Here are 9 areas you can address to make it easier. — Divorce is painful and undesirable. But,...
View Article50 Reasons You Should Act More Like a Happily Divorced Guy
Steve Horsmon explains why your unhappy wife secretly notices happily divorced guys ___ I’m a happily divorced man. The divorce came first – then the happy. Pain first – then growth. It just doesn’t...
View ArticleThe 9 Most Important Things to Remember After Your Divorce
Embed from Getty Images Truths to hold onto as you sit alone and contemplate your life as a divorced man. — Your bed is empty. Your house, silent. Your life seems to have come to a standstill. There...
View ArticleThe Best First Aid for Your Emergency Room Marriage
When men realize their marriage is bleeding out they rush into my “emergency room”…which means I receive an urgent email asking for help. I have to remain calm to help them calm down. Breathe. Focus....
View ArticleShocking Advice for (possibly) Getting Your Wife Back
I spend a lot of time with men who are just now discovering the possibility of separation or divorce. Every man wants the same thing. He wants his wife back. He wants her to love him again. He wants...
View ArticleEight Tips You Must Know for Successfully Coping With Divorce
Embed from Getty ImagesDivorce sucks. It’s one of the most horrible experiences you’ll ever go through. And instead of allowing you the time and space to deal with it all, life demands that you keep...
View ArticleWhy Some Divorced Guys Totally Rock the Dating Scene
“I’ll probably never be able love anyone like I loved, Jessica.” Paul told me a few weeks after his divorce from his wife of 18 years.”The last year of his marriage was an exhausting struggle as he...
View ArticleThree Resolutions EVERY Divorced Man Should Make—and Keep
Embed from Getty ImagesObviously, you’ve heard of New Year’s resolutions. They’re those little promises you make to yourself on January first each year that you rarely follow through on. You have...
View ArticleHow to Immediately Deal with the Loneliness of Divorce
Embed from Getty Images—Losing your marriage to divorce is one of the most difficult losses you’ll ever experience. What you’ve lost is so much more than just a marriage. Among so many losses, you’ve...
View ArticleHow To Deal With The Awful Stuff People Say When You’re Getting Divorced
Embed from Getty Images—You’d like to believe that people would be kind and compassionate to you when you’re getting divorced. After all it is one of the most stressful things you can go through.And...
View ArticleHow to End a Miserable Marriage (Without Feeling Guilty at All)
Embed from Getty ImagesOne of the reasons making the decision to divorce is so painful – even when you know that leaving your marriage is absolutely the right thing to do – is that you believe doing...
View ArticleThe No-Fail Method to Answer: ‘Should I Get a Divorce?’
No one can decide for you, but here is a way to make the decision easier for yourself.—Hands down the most common question I hear working in the divorce arena is this: “How do I know whether or not I...
View ArticleHow to Rebuild Self-Esteem After Divorcing a Manipulator
6 ways to break the cycle of dysfunctional attraction and recognize your true value.—If you’ve been through a long-term relationship or marriage with an emotional manipulator, chances are you now...
View ArticleHow to Explain to Your Kids When You Disagree With Your Ex
Here’s the magic word to teach your kids the world won’t end anytime soon…—Most divorced parents never want to admit to our kids, let alone to ourselves, that we not only do we no longer love their...
View ArticleDear John, Women Can Handle it When Men Don’t Dig Us
I appreciate the effort to save our feelings, but we will be OK. Really.—Questions for the men:Have you ever found yourself sincerely trying to respect a woman’s feelings by breaking things off...
View ArticleYou’re Not the Crazy One, So Stop Believing It
Divorce can leave you feeling mentally unstable. Are you sure it isn’t just you?—At the end of a long-term relationship with an emotional manipulator, your break up or divorce is unlikely to go...
View ArticleDon’t Use “Force”
Bill Eddy explains that while many children of divorce would rather stay where they are, it doesn’t mean they don’t want to see their Mom or Dad.—“I won’t force the children to go with the other...
View ArticleHow to Have the Most Difficult Conversation of Your Life
8 tips for ending your marriage with respect, honor & compassion.—I recently wrote about the reasons men have difficulty asking their wives for a divorce, and why staying in a marriage that has no...
View ArticleA Username is Worth a Thousand Words
Make the most of online communities during your divorce, even while carefully managing your social media presence.—Most anyone going through a divorce these days is well aware that — at least until...
View ArticleJust Divorced? 5 Things You’ll Want to Do Immediately
Embed from Getty ImagesThe initial period following a divorce may the toughest time anyone can face. Here are 9 areas you can address to make it easier.—Divorce is painful and undesirable. But,...
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